۱۱۲ شیوهٔ تمرکز شیوا مجموعه ۴، قسمت ۵ از ۶

You must understand, cowardice and peace-loving kindness are different. You love a person, but be firm. Just like you love your daughter, but she eats too much sweets, and you have to know when to say “No,” must say when. Not that you love her and then whatever she wants you give her, and you poison her. You give her a lot of coffee, a lot of tea, the way you do. Or if you love her because you like whiskey, you’ll give her [some]? No good. You know what I mean? (Yes.) You have to stand up and protect your family by your own courage and strength inside, from inside. You have to be courageous as a man. Because women look up to men as the stronger sex, as a protector of the family and nation. Now, if you display the opposite, how do you think a woman feels? […] 

You see, if a husband like Shiva or like Kabir. And you see how the women behave? See? (Yes.) And an Indian husband also, they know how to be a man. That’s why the wives subdue to them and dare not say anything. Maybe, of course, the modern-day wives are a little bit more temperamental because she watches a lot on TV. And most of the movies on TV just show a woman being difficult. I don’t know why. […] But I think it’s a very bad example for all the teenage women to follow. […] Well, I hope the Americans will change a little bit, or at least make half-half of it. And not all the time, make a woman look like difficult. […] 

Now, [Number] 61: “Waking, sleeping or dreaming, know yourself as Light.”